PXL_20250724_233734300 — Barkley Corpus

[0.3s] SPEAKER_01: What's good everybody? It's your boy Uncle Les. I'm in the car with Ms. Dayana. How you doing Ms. Dayana? I'm good. Okay. Did I say it right? Yes. There we go. All right so look everyone Ms. Dayana has agreed to do the survey with us so we're gonna ask some qualifier questions first. Is that okay?

[18.2s] SPEAKER_00: Okay awesome. Question number one are you a baddie? Not right now. Okay okay. I'm not in the entire.

[27.6s] SPEAKER_01: She's not. I'm not in baddie form right now. That's Super Saiyan Baddie 3. Are you a Christian? I am. All right. Are you single? Are you older than the age of 35? Makes sense. All right let's get right to it. Name something a parent says before whooping they child. Catching me off guard. Um. You gotta take that call. No. Okay. My grandfather. Red lobster channel discus.

[66.5s] SPEAKER_00: I'm thinking about like if you're already crying and they're like I'm gonna give you something to cry

[70.4s] SPEAKER_01: about. Ah perfect. Typically that's where the tears start right before the don't happen. Shut up. Fill in the blank. You're in the hair salon. You're getting your hair done. What's the last thing you want to hear your hairstylist say? Name something you never want your kids to see on social media. Name the top reason that men get married. Convenience of any particular thing you're just like yo convenience in general. It's more convenient to be married. Just convenience of in general. Okay okay fair fair. Name something Diddy would ask you to bring to the party. The best place to find a spouse is. Bless you. Thank you. Hey hey look don't judge me. I've been

[170.6s] SPEAKER_00: thinking about a good place because I'm thinking of clubs. No that's not a good place.

[174.6s] SPEAKER_01: Not a good place. It is a top answer so far. The club is a top answer right now. It's scary. Scary right? Yes. What? Hey hey what I mean hey what I mean think about it. I mean go do it. You're gonna find one answer that you're like this is this should be an okay please. I guess it depends on like like a jazz club maybe. Okay so like a performance of some kind like speak easy music yeah that's it i like that one i like that i like that record what's something that a parent would say to a bad child but also a coach would say to a player all right there's one what's the worst

[233.6s] SPEAKER_00: hood in atlanta she said throw the whole city away the whole city hood let's just start over what does a man have to do to get catered to you treatment i guess if you want if the command is to me i'll pay this when we get home but if he wants to be like you know pampered or whatever he has he has to be i always want to have a job so i'm always gonna have my own money

[290.9s] SPEAKER_01: okay i can dig that i can dig that uh you had a waffle house and a fight breaks out

[300.4s] SPEAKER_00: what do you do next mind your business

[310.1s] SPEAKER_01: respectable respectable respectable what's the worst halloween costume which one it's like um

[326.1s] SPEAKER_00: you know when like you're an ant like when they try to dress as an animal all they have is ears and then the rest of the outfit has nothing to do with the animal it's just random stuff oh so

[336.4s] SPEAKER_01: someone does the animal ears that's it yeah you're like oh i'm a mouse no no you're not a mouse you are you are a playboy bunny with mouse ears i get that all right so diddy r kelly and tyler perry are either going down have gone down or they're about to go down but my question to you is who's next oh yeah i don't know you got somebody in somebody in there gonna make you like hey that's come back to that question come back to that question let's see what else we got here we go we got here oh tell me how many dates until a man should expect a home-cooked meal from a young lady

[409.8s] SPEAKER_00: i'd say two dates a new person and then you know making sure that that's keeping contact and then like constantly talk and then the third date you know i'd invite them over to cook them name the

[428.1s] SPEAKER_01: difference between a husband and a boyfriend my husband is somebody who

[441.4s] SPEAKER_00: i have no idea a husband is somebody who gets every part of me i guess like a boyfriend i'll i'll give him trust and all that but once we find my husband is like we really rely on each other so a husband you rely on you depend on him like you know like mentally emotionally stuff like that yeah okay he's dependable if i'm marrying him yeah i'd like to think that i'd marry somebody who's dependable okay okay why do men need women i don't need nobody attacking me wait a minute

[502.5s] SPEAKER_01: all right well first of all i'm gonna protect you if you don't want me to oppose this one that's fine i won't but i just for the survey i gotta know you know i feel like nine times out of ten women are a lot more emotionally intelligent than me okay there are men that are emotionally more

[524.7s] SPEAKER_00: intelligent than women but you know i feel like in some in some ways women can balance out a certain man depending on depending on personality i can see that i can see that

[544.6s] SPEAKER_01: oh so let me ask you this because now i do have to ask you some questions about that that's interesting okay um when you say emotionally more intelligent what defines

[559.0s] SPEAKER_00: more emotionally intelligent it's more like when i say emotionally intelligent is being able to address how you feel in a manner that's not you know oh i'm mad don't talk to you like i prefer i'll always grew up in a home where if somebody was feeling some type of way to be expressed hey i'm i'm not really feeling like i don't feel like talking right now i'll come back to you and explain what the issue was if they're too mad to actually address the issue at the moment i feel like a lot of i feel like a lot of men especially when it comes to like emotion like sadness they internalize they don't really express that and then it's kind of messing up the flow of a relationship like you know romantic a friendship or just you know just family they mess up the relationship because they can't they can't express how they feel and then you're just sitting there wondering guessing hey what is he being a bit more standoffish than he usually would be so let me ask you this if a man

[644.0s] SPEAKER_01: has a way of expressing that but it's not with you like he knows how to go through his emotions

[649.6s] SPEAKER_00: would that be okay as long as everybody expresses you know how they feel differently everybody has different outlets i understand because i do too sometimes there are some emotions that i feel i'm like you know step back and like you know think about why i feel this way so if a man does have have an outlet that's not with me or like you know talking to me that's fine just let me know

[677.6s] SPEAKER_01: hey i need to fix okay so it's being able to be being able to communicate when you need space or when to give space and then be able to communicate emotions in an effective way okay i just want to make sure that i got this correct you believe that men tend to lack the

[710.9s] SPEAKER_00: ability to do that like when it comes to romance like the men in my family whoa you're romantic

[722.4s] SPEAKER_01: we ain't talking about romance yet we we talk about emotional intelligence yeah like like the

[727.1s] SPEAKER_00: men that i've met like when it comes like just like all those aspects like family too the men in my family you can't tell them nothing they the moment they get mad they start huffing and puffing slamming doors and i'm like oh my god it didn't they it didn't like um the next day they act like they act like it never happened and i'm like i'm not messing with that so from my own

[752.9s] SPEAKER_01: experience you know experience it's emotional okay i see i can wow you know it's funny i'm sitting here taking in what you're saying i'm like i'm not sure if i'll call that emotional intelligence but i guess that's emotional maturity um i think i think what i think about the phrase emotional intelligence i think a little bit more about how do you deal with or identify someone's emotions including your own like how well are you at accepting those things and then to and then to process them but okay cool that i actually i will admit this to you um i agree with that i definitely do um now i understand what you're saying more um but i would also claim that in the same token not to be tip or tat i'm trying not to but i think most people in our generation just struggle with that in general like i'm like yo y'all can't y'all can't just say hey i'm upset i need a moment and i'll come back to you and that's a complete thing you have acknowledged yourself you told them you're gonna need some time and you also the part i think a lot of people miss you told them how it's going to be resolved i'll come back to you that's the full thing not i need some space that's not being that's not being mature and kind about it and then also the excuse and i call it i do call an excuse the excuse of i'm upset let me let's go this way well the excuse of i'm upset and now i can't function i'm like no no no no no that's that's the whole challenge is can you be upset 443 442 because there's no reason why

[875.5s] SPEAKER_00: you get you get like upset and suddenly you just shut down no yeah there's a there's a process to

[884.6s] SPEAKER_01: it i think most people do just miss that skill like they don't learn how to yeah they lack emotional maturity and intelligence but you do have to learn it you know everyone has to learn their own time but i appreciate that i appreciate that i hope that didn't come off as me coming for you for the no no okay um final question okay oh it's right there no it's the second one oh okay next to the thing oh you know i don't see it to the left oh i see it now aha please don't hit my car so i'm lit last question or at least maybe the last one feeling how much time we got name something that people pretend to

[958.5s] SPEAKER_00: like country music i love that answer because there is no way somebody genuinely it's like none of y'all feel that way right here around right here make an immediate

[987.0s] SPEAKER_01: make an immediate left wow i ain't gonna make it hard though i was gonna make it hard right here first day and we are left well miss lady i want you to know i appreciate you isn't impressive you haven't oh you said no social medias right all right well we're on youtube wait do you want me to let you know when your episode comes out we're gonna use your whole interview just parts of it don't put it on out i'm just taking the survey don't use nothing else i can do yeah no problem hey editors we are not using any of this video footage just the answers thank you kindly we appreciate you oh oh snap you can verify that we never use you go ahead check me out right there uh please scan that yes ma'am you said it right too two one two the beat i appreciate you you have a good day i hope i distracted you hey have a good one

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