โ I mean, of course, it needs to be held accountable. We shouldn't be doing that. But like, what's a good punishment for that?
๐ฌ if the father doesn't want to give them to the grandparents, I don't know. But I guess part of his answer was, I think his answer really, it was kind of an emotional answer, it was just clear. Part of it, I think is like, he's like, hey, give me my kids back so I can raise them. And the other part is, you shouldn't be raising these kids if you're willing
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[0.3s]SPEAKER_00:What's good everybody? It's Chiboy Uncle Les. I'm in the car with Miss Tiff. Say what's up, Tiff. Hey everybody. See, I like that good energy, guys. So everybody, here's what we doing. We're going through the survey. We got a lightning round as well, okay? So we're gonna go ahead with the uh, the intro. The intro, right? We got some uh, we got some qualified questions to ask. All right, you have any kids? Yes. Are you Christian? No. Are you single? No. All right, let's get into it. So, icebreakers, we're gonna get to, we'll keep it light stuff first. What's the best advice for new
[44.9s]SPEAKER_01:moms? Oh, the best advice for new moms, me being a mom, um, I would say cherish those moments when they're younger, that time really flies. And also, sleep when they're sleeping. Don't try to get things done around the house. Get your rest. As a new mom, you're gonna be tired, you're gonna be exhausted. Get that sleep while they're sleeping. The other things can wait. That's my advice.
[74.0s]SPEAKER_00:Okay, okay. Anything about the delivery? Any advice for giving life? Like the delivery process,
[81.9s]SPEAKER_01:like yo, I wish I had known this. Oh, so I had a C-section. So it was a little different for me.
[89.6s]SPEAKER_00:Of course, being a new mom and then basically just coming out of surgery and then boom,
[94.2s]SPEAKER_01:your mother, this is your responsibility. It doesn't matter if you just had surgery, you have a responsibility. You have somebody that you're obligated to. So take care of yourself. I know when babies are first born, everything is all you have. This is the baby and the baby and people try to, or they fail to realize that it kind of pushed the mother on the back burner. So take care of yourself. It's about you as well. I know you just brought life into this world,
[120.5s]SPEAKER_00:but take care of you. Big facts, big facts. All right, so now name something that a parent
[126.2s]SPEAKER_01:would say before whipping their child. Oh my gosh. Stop crying if I give you something to cry about.
[136.1s]SPEAKER_00:Okay, okay. Name something you never want your kids to see on your social media.
[141.0s]SPEAKER_01:Can't really speak for me because my social media, I don't really post anything, but I would say if it's somebody else, I won't want my child to see me on the internet or half naked or being sexual or any kind of way or being just accessible to the world.
[165.0s]SPEAKER_00:I see that. That makes sense. That makes sense. That makes sense. If you had a waffle house
[168.6s]SPEAKER_01:and a fight race out, what do you do next? I'm going to get out of the way.
[176.4s]SPEAKER_00:That makes sense. I'm getting out of the way. What's the worst thing about people that move
[180.8s]SPEAKER_01:to Atlanta? They come down here from wherever they come from, not knowing how to drive. Take that back wherever y'all came from. There's not a people that live here born and raised and still here. Some people that come here that can't drive. I'm trying to tell them.
[201.2s]SPEAKER_00:What's the number one thing a Karen does? Repeat that question. What's the number one thing
[211.0s]SPEAKER_01:a Karen does? I know you post this online, but the number one thing a Karen does is play victim. Play the victim. Thank you. Why go to college? Why go to college? I feel like nowadays how it was preached back to us back when we were younger. Go to college, get an education. I think it's way different now. Like you said, go to college and get that education and get that degree, but a lot of people take different routes now. I want to say go to college, get your degree, get your education, but with the way the world is now is some of the other things that you can do outside of going to college. Still go to college and get that degree, but there's a lot more now in today's world that you can do without that college degree. Okay. Name the most attractive
[272.4s]SPEAKER_00:part of a woman's appearance that's not a body part. Her softness. Being feminine. That's going
[287.6s]SPEAKER_01:to attract the eye. When should kids move out the house? When they, for me, when my child's ready, we can move out. I don't believe in that. I think that's just setting your kids back when he's ready and he's financially ready, then he can, he can go. Okay. So maturity and finances ready. Yes. Okay. Not when you're 18. That's still a kid. What's the first thing you think of when you hear the phrase hot girl summer? Hot girl summer. The first thing I think of, I think of
[330.9s]SPEAKER_00:on top of the car is dancing. Outside. Outside. I get that. I get that. What's something that is
[341.2s]SPEAKER_01:better now than it was 20 years ago? Oh, something that's better now than it was 20 years ago?
[356.4s]SPEAKER_00:Um, technology. What should happen to men who cheat? What should happen to them? They should
[366.1s]SPEAKER_01:be held accountable. I don't wish ill on anyone, sir, but they definitely should be held accountable for their actions. Am I held accountable? Does they need to profess it? Um, being held accountable is, um, again, I don't wish bad on nobody, but of course you need to, you know, you sit with what you've done or I don't know how, I don't know how I would handle it. But of course, if a man works to cheat on me, um, I'm leaving. So you're going to have to just deal with missing me or whatever the case may be. But if a man cheating, I'm gone. So the punishment should be if a man cheats, he loses his partner. He's going to lose his partner. He's going to have to deal with that. I don't know. Basically people think that men are really nonchalant when it comes to that, they can just cheat and then move on to the next one. I think men, they have feelings. They have feelings. If someone leaves you that you love, but you're cheating on them because you're a man and you can't control yourself, you're going to miss that woman. You have to
[430.5s]SPEAKER_00:deal with that. You're going to have to lay down with that. What should happen to a woman who cheats?
[435.4s]SPEAKER_01:The same thing. She needs to be held accountable. Now you're going to lose this man. You have to deal with the fact that you might not find him and anyone else. And you have to live with that. Okay. Is snitching ever justified? Snitching? Yeah. It is. I snitch on my nieces and nephews
[452.8s]SPEAKER_00:all the time. Name something you wish men understood about women.
[462.4s]SPEAKER_01:Women are naturally emotional. A lot of men, they think that, you know, women are just complaining. I mean, don't get me wrong. Some women do just nag and complain, but women are very emotional. You have to really pay attention to a woman, what she's professing and what she's expressing to you. And don't take it as an attack, but just listen and just figure out, okay, why do you feel that way? Instead of you just nagging, you're just complaining,
[494.7s]SPEAKER_00:just doing this and just listen. Okay. What's the first word that comes to mind when you hear the
[504.0s]SPEAKER_01:phrase baby mama? I hate that term. I really do. When I hear baby mama, I think of some ghetto mess. Like just, why not just my child's mother? I really hate that term, baby mama. I hate the term baby daddy too. I hate it. Okay. I'm going to wrap those up as one. What age should you have bought a house by? I don't think it's an age that I would say. Again, I think it's when you're ready. I don't think it's an age. Of course, you have some people that's up in their fifties and so and so, and they never bought a house or anything, but some people aren't financially set. Their mindset is not that way. So I don't want to put an age on it, but you got to work for it. What's the best part about dating? The best part about dating security. You said security? Yeah. Okay. I like security, like feeling protected. Security, having fun, dating, keeping it, you know, live and things of that nature. Okay. What's the first thing
[600.0s]SPEAKER_00:you spend your money on after getting paid? Bills. Jesus. And what's the 2025 American dream?
[613.7s]SPEAKER_01:From what I see, not me, but I think people like to flash your cards and flash your money. And I think people's dream now is just to... I like just to flex. Yeah, I think so. That's from what I see.
[632.2s]SPEAKER_00:Okay. And I guess the last two questions I got, these are a little bit crazy. What should happen to men who don't take care of their kids? It's okay if you don't answer that one. We can go to the next one. We go to the next one. What should happen to women who talk bad about their baby's fathers? What should happen to them? Yeah. If you could control the world, like you, you decide what punishments were handed out to people. It was like, your honor, this woman is confirmed without a shower of a doubt and confessed to talking trash about her kid, about her, the father of her kids to the kids.
[679.1s]SPEAKER_01:What should be done? I don't agree with that either. What should be done to her though?
[690.9s]SPEAKER_00:What should happen to her? You could say the universe might do something to her. Like, hey, this should happen to women that talk ill of their kids' fathers to the kids.
[701.5s]SPEAKER_01:I'm trying to think what should happen to her. I don't know. I really don't have an answer for that. I'm trying to think of something that should happen. How about that one?
[724.8s]SPEAKER_00:That's all good. It's all good. But questions like, questions that I was asking like there, but that one in particular, I'm just starting to realize like as a society, we allow things to happen because we don't really have repercussions for them. Like they're just so bad that when they happen, we're like, level 10, level 10. But if anyone's actually get asked like, hey, this needs to stop. Okay. What do you do? Well, they should, they should stop. It's like, now what? Even the answers, like one of the craziest I've gotten so far, I thought it was a little bit wild. But at the same time, I was like, what's that functioning? He straight up said, give the kids to the father. Just immediately. Like she can't, she can't keep her mouth together. What else does that say about her? Just give the kids back to the dad. I was like, damn, that's ruthless. But it's also the most clear answer that I've been given.
[788.6s]SPEAKER_01:I can't really, I'm still stuck on that. What should happen to her? I mean, of course, it needs to be held accountable. We shouldn't be doing that. But like, what's a good punishment for that? Like, so let's just say with his answer, let's just say if the father isn't active, or he doesn't want to be a part, maybe that's why she's talking about him. So you can't just give them to him if he doesn't want anything to do with them. So, um, but then it's like, so
[821.2s]SPEAKER_00:if the father doesn't want to give them to the grandparents, I don't know. But I guess part of his answer was, I think his answer really, it was kind of an emotional answer, it was just clear. Part of it, I think is like, he's like, hey, give me my kids back so I can raise them. And the other part is, you shouldn't be raising these kids if you're willing
[842.5s]SPEAKER_01:to talk about their father like this. Right. And I understand his aspect, if he's an active father, she's just getting bitter. Like, hey, I don't want anything to do with you or whatever the case may not. His answer is feasible for that. But then on the flip side,
[858.8s]SPEAKER_00:it's like, what do you do if the father really isn't active? Right. You still shouldn't be talking mess. Facts. But what's the action? Like you see how that was not really a good answer either. It's not really like a foolproof, like, hey, this is what should happen. But I'm just starting to realize with asking some of these questions, we, we at least in Atlanta so far, we're not very good at holding each other accountable. That's why most of my answers to be held accountable. But then the question becomes, how do you hold people accountable? And I'm, it's starting to be a good question. Oh, this is season two, the first season. Oh, God. But thank you for subscribing. Thank you for participating. Thank you very much. Now I want you to have a good day. Okay.